“Communication takes place between people, not between the genitals.” Men and women about what they would like to know about sex at an early age

- In matters of contraception, of course, you need to understand thoroughly. When I met a young man two years ago, we passed tests for different infections and showed each other the results of the examination. Because we are adults who are responsible for their health. At the age of 18, it would never have occurred to me - I would have thought it was humiliating.

When people come to schools and talk about condoms, they pay almost no attention to hygiene, they don’t say that, for example, it would be nice to do this with clean hands.

The gynecologist told me that one of the reasons for thrush may be that the partner does not brush his teeth before oral sex. Such things do not explain when they are taught to use condoms. Perhaps this knowledge would save me from various troubles. For about 20 years, for some reason I was afraid to ask the gynecologist questions, but I had to. Still, the advice of girlfriends will not replace the recommendations of a professional.

Now I can ask the doctor any question - it should be so.

There is one more nuance, let's call it "psychological hygiene." I had several connections that I regret because I did not need them. They did not make me happier. The pleasure is second, but then you carry this with you all your life.

Perhaps it was better to filter people and have more respect for themselves. Then it seemed that I would have something to remember, but it turned out that there was something to forget.

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